Fact Friday


Are all addictions the same?

Addiction is characterized by inability to consistently abstain, impairment in behavioral control, craving, diminished recognition of significant problems with oneā€™s behaviors and interpersonal relationships, and a dysfunctional emotional response. Like other chronic diseases, addiction often involves cycles of relapse and remission. Without treatment or engagement in recovery activities, addiction is progressive and can result in … Continue reading Are all addictions the same?

Livid, disgusted, heartbroken and scared shitless

I'm seeing a lot of posts and concern surrounding transmittal and diagnosis of HPV, and I'm, livid, disgusted, heartbroken and scared shitless all at the same time. About 18 years ago I was treated for CervicalĀ carcinoma inĀ situ (Stage 0) via LEEP procedure. I had to anxiously get tested every 6 months for a couple of … Continue reading Livid, disgusted, heartbroken and scared shitless


Mr. Perfect has been in carpentry school for the last 3 weeks, but prior to this he applied for an internal office/project manager job and already had the job in his mind. He therefore already came to the conclusion (in his own mind), that he wouldn't have to attend schooling for the next 2 months. … Continue reading OUCH!

Happy 2 more years

Well, today is the second anniversary of DDay #2. March 19, 2017 was the day my world with Mr. Perfect shattered for the second time within 2.5 months. It's the day I learned the mother-load of his secret and disgusting life full of lies, illicit sex and unattractive women. It's also the day he survived … Continue reading Happy 2 more years

Can you imagine?

Mr. Perfect has been diagnosed as a sex addict. It's not that he was extra horny or anything, it's that he used illicit sex and contact with unattractive women as an attempt to feel extra wanted, desired, adored, admired, in control, on a pedestal etc. The fact that his sex drive hasn't changed and the … Continue reading Can you imagine?